Don’t live someone else’s version of happy
Did you have kids to make your parents happy? Did you go too high up the stressful corporate ladder just for that fancy job title for your LinkedIn page?
What about when it comes to sex…
Entice a man, don’t pressure a man, to want to see you
I think I finally understand how to stop losing guys the same way.
Pressure to see me.
Not a good feeling for them.
Enticement works much better anyways.
The red line (with women)... when we’re done, we’re done
It’s true what they say about us normally forgiving women…. when that red line is crossed it really is over. There is emotional certainty in it for us. There is no more emotional conflict. There is nothing to miss… the guy we missed doesn’t exist anymore.
Emotional triggers… are where there is “animation” behind your emotional reactions. Follow the clues to set yourself free.
Ever notice you get especially irritated or even angry when talking about something specific? I.e. an ex who hurt you, when someone is late, when you feel a certain feeling (i.e. forgotten, lonely, disrespected, instructed). Take note of what it was that you were talking about when you got animated… you’ll need it soon. 😘
What do women want? We want to feel special to you.
When I feel so special to a man that I smile when I think about him… it’s like temporary anesthesia in my jealousy energy… nothing hurts cause I feel so good. He could literally have on orgy at Comic-Con on the weekend and as long as he didn’t miss a beat in our dynamic I would be entirely happy for him. Funny isn’t it?
No more B****m (ex/friend)
As much as I am salty and truly disappointed at the loss of a friendship it is no longer okay to “carry him” with me energetically. Time to release him and make space for someone new.