Unexpectedly watching an ex-FWB succeed at a sex club - and cheering him on
I’m optimistic about my ability to navigate this swinger world… feelings and all. It’s all about respect and trust. Turns out you can not be a match with someone sexually anymore and still be friends. And it feels good.
Waiting for the emotional seasons to change
It’s been a long hard emotional winter. I’ve had to contend with painful heartbreak and some harsh but honest life lessons about peoples trust and reassurances.
How to release the pain of a broken heart 💔
And so bit by bit
You learn to let that *thing* go
For it is only you who are drowning in the grief and pain
And you can set yourself free
When an “ex” comes knocking… you don’t have to answer the metaphorical door
When you finally learn the lesson that someone is unhealthy for your mental peace… it’s time to close the door, and keep it closed.
I’m going on an emotional diet… from men who are luke warm about fucking me
My issue isn’t with casual sex… it’s that I was upfront about what I wanted out of it… Ongoing casual sex. Not a fuck and chuck. Not a one-hit wonder. Yet that seems to be what I am getting in return. Either the men I engage with are being dishonest with their intentions, or it’s hopeless to find a casual FWB to fuck me more than 3 times.